RainOverTalks
Twitter: @iamRainOver
Topic: Love shouldn't be what you can afford as a man.
I stand to be corrected.
A friend told me straight to my face *love is what you can afford as a man* and it breaks my heart to pieces.
If love is what you can afford as a man:
1) it means unconditional love does not exist.
2) it takes away the need for two people to come together become one and make each other great.
3) It means as a rich man I can marry as many wives as I want after all I have the money.
4) It means relationships are built on money and not love.
5) It means our women only care about money and sex and nothing more.
If love is what you can afford as a man:
1) It means as a man never love any woman to heart.
2) It means as a man your marriage or relationship can end at any time. Because the day your wife or girlfriend finds a man that can provide better than you do, she will cheat on you afterwards leave you or kill you.
3) It means the phrase I love you is nothing but a phrase.
4) It means there will be a lot of broken homes because humans are insatiable.
5) It means relationships are built on material things.
Reality
Most of the ladies out there today are picking a man to love by what he can afford.
That's why we have too many divorcees and single ladies and men, baby mama and baby daddy everywhere and it is fast becoming our way of life.
Men are behaving cruelly to the woman because man believes all she wants is my money so take it, let me have sex with you and go find another man. Treating our girls like wore.
GENDER EQUALITY
Ladies are pushing for gender equality but expressing I love you for what you can afford forgetting that gender equality only works when you love each other unconditionally.
Don't expect a man you marry for his money to enter the kitchen to cook for you?
It is only a man that loves you to heart that can publicly wash your pant and bra and care not what people will say.
So stop pushing for gender equality instead promote #MarryForLove
If you love each other truly you can work together to become rich and financially stable.
LADIES WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN MEN AS AGAINST WHAT HE CAN AFFORD
1) Does he have a vision? ( dreams and aspirations).
2) Is he willing to push to achieve it with you by his side? Note: It is important to know if he wants you by his side to achieve it if not JAPA!!!
3)Does he love you to heart?
4) Does he respect you?
5) What is his downside? (Once you know then you need to decide if you can live with it, if not JAPA!!!)
6) Are you fond of each other?
7) Can he bring down his ego for you?
As a man, you should get the same information too.
Marriage is an institution where two disable or incapable comes together to become able or capable. If you are not ready to do that please DONT MARRY and please DONT DATE ANYONE. Because those you dated and break their heart because of material things end up believing all women are the same thereby maltreating good women.
LOVE IS NEVER WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD AS A MAN AND SHOULD NOT BE
Let's end this cruel world of loving for money and material things.
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Twitter: @iamRainOver
I STAND TO BE CORRECTED
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