Chukwuemeka Okoye, popularly known as Frodd from Big Brother Naija, disclosed a deeply personal and harrowing experience during an interview on the Talk to B podcast on May 27, 2025. The 34-year-old reality star revealed that he was sexually molested from ages 5 to 9 by a trusted family acquaintance, an ordeal that profoundly impacted his childhood and emotional development.
Frodd, a Season 4 (Pepper Dem) runner-up and All-Stars housemate, shared that the abuse occurred in his hometown of Anambra State, where the perpetrator exploited their close relationship with his family to gain access to him.
Frodd recounted the confusion and fear he felt as a child, noting that he lacked the understanding to articulate or report the abuse at the time. The trauma led to struggles with trust and self-esteem, which he only began addressing in adulthood through therapy and spiritual guidance. He credited his resilience to his faith and support from his wife, Chioma, whom he married in February 2023, and their daughter, born in August 2023. Frodd’s decision to speak out was motivated by a desire to raise awareness about child sexual abuse in Nigeria, where stigma often silences survivors. He urged parents to foster open communication with their children and advocated for stricter legal measures against perpetrators.
The revelation has sparked widespread reactions, with fans and advocacy groups praising Frodd’s courage. His story has highlighted the prevalence of child abuse in Nigeria, where a 2023 UNICEF report noted that one in four children experiences sexual violence before age 18. Frodd announced plans to collaborate with NGOs like the Mirabel Centre to support survivors, emphasizing the need for safe spaces and counseling. He also addressed misconceptions about male victims, stressing that abuse transcends gender and requires collective action. Frodd’s openness has positioned him as a voice for change, with his platform amplifying calls for justice and prevention.